I believe that people cannot be changed unless they want to be changed. I have thought this for most of my conscious life, and I will probably keep thinking this. No matter how miserable a person is, they have forged that path for themselves. It takes hitting rock bottom to realize a change must be made, and even then its no easy admission. I think that is what makes change so hard; admission. It is the worst feeling in the world to let people know that you know and truly believe that you were in the wrong. Honestly, it sucks. But in order for one to grow, they must know what they are growing from or diverting away from. You have to find your solid ground, even if it is as low as can be. I often fail to see that people are not made of clay, and they can not be molded into the people I want them to be. I see that I am in the wrong there, and I have found my solid ground. Now all I have to do is work everyday to understand that every person has nothing to do with what I want.
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